Contributions to the tribute of Charles Candler McConnell Jr

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Thursday, June 27, 2019

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Leslie Mason posted a condolence

Monday, November 4, 2013

I have just found this on the Internet and am so sad. I met him while working for the Macon County School System and enjoyed talking with him about various programs. What a great man and certainly a loss for the western NC community. It is always so sad to lose such an important person and role model...

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Mitzi Searcy Willis posted a condolence

Monday, February 11, 2013

Dear McConnell Family, My prayers and sympathy go out to each of you. Charlie was mentioned fondly in my family all of my life. He served as such a positive role model to each of us in the Searcy home. He will be greatly missed. As my love of basketball continues in my adult life, I often think of Charlie and his advice or encouragement he gave me and I try to give that same inspiration to others. May God give each of you in the McConnell family peace during this time of grieving. God Bless you Charlie and you will be missed deeply!!!

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Bill and Linda Cowan posted a condolence

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Condolences from the Cowan family to the McConnell family. Bill, Linda, Jill, Jan and Jimmy

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Balfour and Carol Lynn Knight posted a condolence

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Dear Ruth, Kristy, Jeff, Greg, Judy, Gene and Kathy, We were shocked and saddened to read today in the Sylva newspaper of Charles' passing. Charles was a wonderful husband, father and friend who always had a ready smile and loving chuckle. We know that he will be missed not only by his family and friends but also by the community where he gave himself so freely. Charles was a "true and faithful servant" and is resting eternally in our Father's arms. May God grant you the peace that passes all understanding and soothe your grieving hearts. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love, Balfour and Carol Lynn

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Sharon Montgomery posted a condolence

Thursday, February 7, 2013

What a remarkable man, he helped so many. I had a need for someone in my community whose house was leaking and floor was falling through and overall in terrible shape. my sister put me in touch with Charlie, Jackson Neighbors in Need. He went with me the next night to check it out and within a week he had the materials there to begin the work. Without his help and dedication to his cause this would have never been possible. I am sure that he is wearing a crown with many jewels. This world could certainly use alot more Charlie McConnell's in it. He will be missed. Love and peace to the family in this time of great loss.

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Yvonne Hart posted a condolence

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Dear Family, I was so sorry to hear of Charlie's passing. We are in Florida now, so I won't be able to visit with you. I always enjoyed working with Charlie and his "pop-in" visits to my classroom. All of us in Haywood appreciated his working with us to obtain our first supplement; it is now a part of his legacy. Greg, Jeff, and Kristi---I certainly enjoyed having each of you in my classes. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. Yvonne hart

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Yvonne Hart posted a condolence

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Dear family, I was so sorry to hear about Charlie's passing. We are in Florida now, so I won't be able to be there to visit with you. I always enjoyed working with him and his "pop-in" visits to my classroom. We all appreciated his working with us to obtain our first local supplement, which is now a part of his legacy. Greg, Jeff, and Kristy---it was a joy to have had you in my classes. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. Yvonne Hart

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Robert Jones posted a condolence

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Thoughts and Prayers to Ruth and the Family.... Charlie was a courier of light and warmth and hope whereever he went... truly one of God's Footsoldiers among us....

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DiAnne Crisp posted a condolence

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

My deepest sympathy to Charlie's family. We should all strive to make a difference in this world the way Charlie did. He was a good example for us all.

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DiAnne Crisp posted a condolence

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

My deepest sympathy to Charlie's family. We should all strive to make a difference in this world the way Charlie did. He was a good example for us all.

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Kathleen Collins posted a condolence

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

To Ruth and family, Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. Charlie was on of the co-founders of New Century Scholars. Olivia, my daughter was a recipient of this scholarship program and I am so thankful for it. With my other two children in college at the same time, this scholarship program has helped my family greatly. Thank you, Charlie, and I will miss hearing all the great stories you told.

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Mary Odom posted a condolence

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Uncle Charlie I am so glad that you help inspire my daughter to become an educator.

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Ruby Bennett posted a condolence

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Prayers and thoughts are being sent to your family during this time of sorrow.I went to school with Charles.

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Bette Edwards posted a condolence

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

To Ruth and children: Never will I forget all the fun times we had together while raising the girls. My heart goes out to all of you and you know you are in my prayers.

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Don and Jan Nesbitt posted a condolence

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Ruth and children, We certainly are sorry for your loss as well as ours! Charlie was a wonderful friend with an outstanding sense of humor! We know your loss is great but don't you know how they are rejoicing up in heaven with him there telling the best stories and jokes! We certainly will hold you all close in our thoughts and prayers! Blessings!

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Inez Dills posted a condolence

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

I was sorry to hear about Charles. Thanks to him my counsin got a new floor for her kitchen. He will be miised.

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Jim and Teresa Manring posted a condolence

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Ruth and family ... you have our heartfelt sympathy. Many will feel the loss of Charlie McConnell. He was a bigger than life kinda guy. We were all better for having experienced his friendship. He was a giving person and had such great sense of humor. "Those we love the most never truly leave us. They live on in the love and joy they brought into our lives." Isabel Norton

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Howard Allman posted a condolence

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Charlie was a giant of a man in so many ways. He was a corner stone of our community.He was always willing to give of himself for the good of his community. Always fun loving and always had the best and newest jokes. I just can't imagine our lives without him. Charlie you will be missed.

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Jeff Carpenter and Family posted a condolence

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

I will always cherish the memories of Charlie..He was always so helpful and cheerful. He and his family have done so much for my family! God Bless you in your time of loss. Our loss is Heaven's gain.Thank you Charlie!!

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Linda DelForge posted a condolence

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

My heart goes out to the family I first knew Charlie as a basketball player at Western when he and I were students at the same time. Those were happy times that still bring a smile. We were not close but he always called me by name. I teased him about marrying such an attractive wife.

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Carolyn, Johnny Wike posted a condolence

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Charlie, was loved by many. He was a wonderful Superintendent of Schools for Jackson County and always was involved in his community. He cared for the young people in this community and did so much to help them. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

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Jim & Gail Taylor posted a condolence

Monday, February 4, 2013

We were so sad to learn of Charles' passing so unexpectedly.so many memories..like the trip to St. Louis.He was blessed with a good Mom and Dad, close siblings Judy and Gene, a loving wife, wonderful children and grandchildren, and a multitude of friends. He had a full life and touched alot of people's lives and at the end of our journey it is satifying to know all is well with our souls and the examples we leave behind always keeps us close. we pray you will be comforted through this season and know how much we all care.

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Jon Manring posted a condolence

Monday, February 4, 2013

Ruth and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Charlie was a great guy and a lot of fun to be around. He was always kind, generous, and full of laughs. Sylva lost one of the best guys I ever had the chance to know. I attended a few super bowl parties at your house and thought of him often yesterday. May God be with you in your time of sorrow.

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Kevin and Alma Wells posted a condolence

Monday, February 4, 2013

Ruth, you and your family are in our deepest thoughts and prayers...Charlie was a wonderful man and left us all with great memories

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Gary M. and Lisha K Ashe Shular posted a condolence

Monday, February 4, 2013

Thank you Charlie for being a great friend and neighbor. My memories of Charlie were someone anyone could turn to for a laugh, a helping hand, or just someone to talk to, for hours, if you had the time. Thank you for being such a great friend and employer for my dad's outside handyman type business. Thank you for always making everyone smile, because you just brought that out in people with your smile. We miss you and will be praying for solace for your family and other friends, especially your beloved soul mate, Ruth as nice a lady as you were a gentleman. THANK YOU

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Lee & Pam Starnes posted a condolence

Monday, February 4, 2013

With deepest sympathy to the McConnell family. Western North Carolina has lost a great promoter and supporter and we have lost a dear friend. Lee & Pam Starnes

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Patty Wilson posted a condolence

Monday, February 4, 2013

Ruth,Judy,Gene,and family, I am so sorry for your loss, Charlie will be greatly missed. As the New Century Scholar's program enters its 18th year (co-founded by Charlie in 1995)I think of Charlie and his vision to help Jackson County youth prepare for college. Under Charlie's vision and leadership literally hunderds of students have achieved their dreams of a college education and a career of their choice. Charlie's legacy will live on for generations to come. I appreciate all he did for me as an employee of Jackson County Schools. I will miss him. Love and prayers,Patty

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David & Jenny Porter posted a condolence

Monday, February 4, 2013

Ruth, Our prayers are with you and the rest of your family in the loss of Charlie. He will be dearly missed in the community. We always enjoyed seeing Charlie at church on Sunday morning. Everywhere you seen him he always had a smile on his face

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FLOYD & SUSAN ROGERS posted a condolence

Monday, February 4, 2013

MEMORIES- SOOOOO MANY. SOOOOO GOOOOD. LITTLE LEAGUE SPORTS, WON SOME & LOST SOME, KIDS IN SCHOOL TOGETHER, SCHOOL BOARD ACTIVITIES ( NEVER WAS DULL ), ALWAYS A GOOD STORY ( SOME TRUTH SOMETIMES ), LIFE IS ABOUT REFLECTIONS, RELATIONSHIPS, TEARS & LAUGHS, WE HAVE MANY OF THOSE TO CHERISH. I THANK GOD FOR CHARLIE & HIS BEAUTIFUL FAMILY. WHAT A BLESSING TO ME & MY FAMILY. LOVE, FLOYD & SUSAN

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Gary Ayers posted a condolence

Monday, February 4, 2013

Ruth, Gene, Greg, Jeff and Kristy:my prayers are with you at the loss of Charlie. I got to know Charlie well while at WWIT radio in Canton. While Charlie and a friend served as chaperones during a Tuscola band-parent trip, they recorded on cassette tape the song 'Unchained Melody' by the Righteous Brothers. A mutual friend got a copy of the tape to me and we promoted it and built it up big time and then played it on the radio. It sounded like a couple of tom-cats with their tail caught by a rocking chair. From that day forward Charlie laughed about that every time I saw him, which was often.Everyone who knew him had a 'Charlie' story. Charlie was larger than life for those of us blessed to know him and all of us in the Catamount Nation will miss him greatly. Charlie made life better for all of us who knew him with his large laugh and his sunny attitude. We love you Charlie.

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Karen Nicholson posted a condolence

Monday, February 4, 2013

Ruth and family, Charlie was such a good friend to my family and he will be missed greatly. He was always there for Mother and she will miss his hugs and all those visits he made bringing her blueberries. We were glad that Kristopher got to see him at Christmas and continue their little game of seeing who could give the biggest candy bar to the other. We love you all and you will be in our prayers.

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Jackson County Veterinary Associates posted a condolence

Monday, February 4, 2013

Ruth and family, You are in our thoughts and prayers and we will miss him dearly. Love, Dr. Shields and staff

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Alma Dills Shuford posted a condolence

Monday, February 4, 2013

May God bless you and give you peace in your loss Charles. Our "younger years" at CHS bring to mind many special thoughts and memories...esp. the basketball games.

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Wanda Herren posted a condolence

Monday, February 4, 2013

Charles was truly a selfless and caring person who will be greatly missed by our community.

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Jamie LeNea Smith posted a condolence

Monday, February 4, 2013

I had the most wonderful blessing (and great challenge) to teach both Garrison & Gavin when they were 4 years old. I enjoyed many many larger than life stories about "Pops" and it was clear....he was their Super hero. When the boys would come back from the mountains I could always expect big tales & fun stories....I had the opportunity to meet Nana & Pops.....and every wonderful thing they had told me was true. Pops was a larger than life super hero. He had a light in him that shined so bright. He left happy tracks every where he went. When Kristy would tell me that Nana & Pops were coming I'd be almost as excited as the boys when they came just to get to visit with them. What a very special family. You are ALL in our prayers. It's comforting to know from the example he gave that one day.... we can see him again in Heaven. (((Hugs )))

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Jimmy Johnson posted a condolence

Monday, February 4, 2013

Ruth, although I haven't seen Charlie in years, we think of him and you often. It seems like not long ago that that McConnells were members of Oakland Baptist Church and Charlie was playing basketball with us at the YMCA in Rock Hill. He was a special guy for sure. We'll be praying for you and the family. God bless and keep you all.

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Gina Cable Clower posted a condolence

Monday, February 4, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Mr. McConnell was always such a joy to be around and was always so encouraging. He always had a warm hug and sometimes a sly comment. What a wonderful man and I know he will be missed by so many. May God Bless you all and heal your hearts.

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Virginia Milligan posted a condolence

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Ruth, Judy, Gene - Lifting you up; God's blessing on you all

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Dillsboro Automotive posted a condolence

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family and community that loved him so! May God bless you all!

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Phil Pressley posted a condolence

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Ruth, Judy, Gene, Greg, Jeff, and Kristie and the rest of the family, I was truly saddened to hear about Charles. He helped me in so many ways as a educator and coach as well as a cousin. He was the kind of person that made peoples lives full of laughter and fun. I know he will be missed in many ways but he is in a much better place today. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. Phil and Pam

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Gretta Worley-Rosbor and Jalen Rosbor posted a condolence

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Coach McConnell was such a wonderful man, so even tempered, patient, and a fierce competitor. Mrs McConnell, thank you for allowing your husband to spend his weekends traveling around the Carolina's coaching high schoolers not only in the game of basketball, but the game of life. Never wonder if he made a difference, because he certainly did. And, I think they made a difference in his as well. I will miss seeing him walking into the Smoky Mountain basketball games, wearing his smile! I am so glad he was able to see his players play their final high school game last season and then watch them graduate. Jalen's clock currently hangs in his dorm room and he will forever treasure it as a keepsake. May God forever bless and keep you.

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George & Madge Stillwell posted a condolence

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Dear Ruth, Judy, Gene, and family, Love and prayers for all of you. Charlie was a great friend to so many, always giving to others with a smile.

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Wanda and Dave Fowler posted a condolence

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Sincere condolences to Ruth and other members of the McConnell Family. As educators, we know and appreciate all Charlie did to help students be successful. His commitment to Western Carolina University as an alum and community supporter has set a standard few will match. He will be missed.

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Georgia & Robert Reeves posted a condolence

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Your are in our thoughts and prayers. He was a wonderful boss and friend. He loved to make my face turn red with his jokes. I can just hear him laugh. If you wanted to better your self. He was behind you ever step of the way.

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Ray Brayboy posted a condolence

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Ruth and the rest of the McConnell family, Bea and I were deeply saddened to hear about the passing of our dear friend Charlie. I first met Charlie when we were public school superintendents. As the years passed he became a wonderful mentor and close friend to me. He always had time to impart a word of "wisdom" to this southeastern North Carolina "flat lander" educator; and I will always cherish his wit, quick mind, compassion and charity for others. More importantly, all of us should be comforted today knowing he is in the presence of his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ---his testimony was consistent and his behavior was always a reaffirmation of that testimony. We love the McConnell family and will always remember the positive impact Charlie made on our lives. Ray Brayboy

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Arlene Constantz Antonio posted a condolence

Sunday, February 3, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

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Joyce Clayton Millsaps posted a condolence

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Ruth- our deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are in our prayers. God Bless, Joyce and Darrell

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Joyce Clayton Millsaps posted a condolence

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Ruth- our deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are in our prayers. God Bless, Joyce and Darrell

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Betty Hooper Pechin posted a condolence

Saturday, February 2, 2013

I was saddened on learning of Charlie's passing. My love goes out to Ruth and the Family. Since I was a child, Ruth and Charlie were in my life. Charles was a generous, giving,loving and exceptional man. He will be greatly missed and never forgotten. Rene' and I will always remember his kindness and humor. Memories are forever and we are thankful to have so many to hold in our hearts.

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Betty Hooper Pechin posted a condolence

Saturday, February 2, 2013

I've known Charles ALL my life since I was a Child and went school with Ruth from 1st grade thru graduation. He was a generous and caring man who loved th Mountains and the people there...he will be greatly missed and ALWAYS remembered with love and a smile.

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Wendy & Edward Lindblom posted a condolence

Saturday, February 2, 2013

Dearest Ruth, Gregg, Jeff, Christy, and the entire McConnell family. Ed and I are so, very sad about Charles' death. For me he was larger than life with a heart that was equally as large. He loved being an educator and tirelessly gave his time and expertise long after his retirement. He lead by example and provided all of us with a role model to emulate. He embraced life, family and community and never turned away from an opportunity to make things better for others. What an incredible legacy he leaves behind. What he has given will continue to have a positive effect on his family, friends, fellow educators, and the community. He has left the world a better place for having had him in it. His legacy will be remembered with admiration and deep respect. We have been truly blessed to have had him touch our lives and hearts and we are grateful for that. I am sure there will be a bright new shining star in the heavens. His family can be enormously proud of his accomplisments and his humanity. I hope they find comfort in each other and in their memories. God bless you all and God bless Charles.

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Eddie and Becky Haynes posted a condolence

Saturday, February 2, 2013

Our deepest sympathy is with your family. We are so sorry fir your loss.

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Lu Ada Burchfiel posted a condolence

Saturday, February 2, 2013

Ruth and Family, I was saddened to hear of Coach McConnell's passing. I was fortunate to have been a student in his first class, as he was my fifth grade teacher at Cullowhee, and then again, in seventh grade. During our last conversation I told him of projects we did in those years that I remember to this day, and how I looked forward to each day in his classroom. He has always been a larger than life character in my memories. He is why I became an educator. Coach McConnell was so special in so many ways, and to so many people. I think of all the children, teachers, and the people of Jackson County who have felt his influence, and been touched by his life. I am one of those people, and I find it difficult to describe how much he has meant to me. His heart was always with young people, and I loved hearing his stories in recent years, of his love of continuing his work with youth. He was such a person of integrity and conviction, who, throughout his life never lost focus of who he was. What a rare thing that is, to always remain true to yourself. What will we do without that strong, contagious personality? He lived life to the fullest and we were all so much better for having him in ours.

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Jean and Johnny Howell posted a condolence

Saturday, February 2, 2013

Ruth, Greg, Jeff, and Wormy, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time. So many good memories of Charlie and his wit and humor. He was a good person and never forgot his friends. He will be greatly missed. Take hope in the many great memories and in the number of lives he touched.

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Deborah Brown Snelson posted a condolence

Saturday, February 2, 2013

Dr.McConnell was a wonderful mentor to me. I travelled many places with him when I was at Hazelwood School. He always made me laugh and I knew he believed in me and encouraged me to be more than I thought I was.I am blessed to have known him!

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Deborah Brown Snelson posted a condolence

Saturday, February 2, 2013

Dr.McConnell was a wonderful mentor to me. I travelled many places with him when I was at Hazelwood School. He always made me laugh and I knew he believed in me and encouraged me to be more than I thought I was.I am blessed to have known him!

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Debra Efird posted a condolence

Saturday, February 2, 2013

I did not have the opportunity to know Dr. McConnell but I am certain that he was of the finest caliber possible to have produced such a compassionate and steadfast daughter as Kristy (Bullock). How wonderful that he realized she would continue to carry on his legacy of promoting character and education in the youth of our state!

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Shila Conner Blankenship posted a condolence

Saturday, February 2, 2013

I left N.C. in 1961 so I never seen Charles after that . I will always remember him for his love for basketball. When we were small and went to visit Our Aunt Mary Pressley Charles would be outside shooting hoops for hours. May he RIP. and God Bless his family.

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Carlton and Judy Heustess posted a condolence

Saturday, February 2, 2013

Ruth, we have just been made aware of your loss. Charlie was a friend to us and to so many other people. He had a profound impact on so many people. You both made such a difference in the community of Rock Hill and the field of Education. You both were so special to us and we will long remember our times together. Our prayers will continue to be with you and your family. Love, Carlton and Judy Heustess

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Pauline Styles Beck posted a condolence

Saturday, February 2, 2013

Dear Family, So sorry. He will be greatly missed by many. May God bless and comfort you all.

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Sarah Felmet posted a condolence

Saturday, February 2, 2013

Charlie was a good man. I remember being a small girl at Clyde Elementary and seeing him in the hallway and grinning as I look at him and called him 'Too Tall'. He was the only man I ever met that was taller than my father and to a small girl that was a rather big deal. He was a personal friend to my parents and I always felt like I had an in with him. A great man with a bigger heart.

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Betty Jean Flake Sink posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

It was sad news yesterday when my brother, Jesse, called to tell me of Charles, Jr.'s death. We have known him all his life so I still call him Charles, Jr. He was a fine man; and has a fine family. I send my deepest sympathy to each one. Love, Betty Jean

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Paula Bickel Mathis posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Ruth, my heart goes out to You and your family at this sad time.

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Thad & Lee Woods posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Ruth and family, we were so sorry to hear about Charlie. Your family has always meant so much to us. Charlie was always the same, no matter where you saw him and always had a smile on his face. We have always thought the world of the McConnell's and Morgan's. May God wrap his arms around all of you and hold you close during this difficult time.

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Stan Bienick posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

I'll always remember Charlie as a man full of life and willing to share his energies with those less fortunate. As a Ramp Builder and member of First United Methodist Church-Sylva, he was a friend and brother in Christ.

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Bill Nolte posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Charlie McConnell was a winner. He when out of his way to help people. He never met a stranger and he always had something "going on" like a practical joke or a really funny story. This world would be a much better place if we had more people like Charlie McConnell.

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Louis and Brenda East posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Gratitude is the word that comes to mind when thinking of Charlie. His concern and compassion for not ony my boys but many students was a gift. I can't begin to imagine the kind of jokes he and Anthony together could be taking place in heaven. Praying as they rejoice in God's rewards; God will cover your family in His love, grace and peace.

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Betty & Aaron Dishman posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Doc was one of the kindest individuals I have ever known. He treated the kids at Cullowhee Valley's SOS program with both firmness and love and was always available to lend a hand with homework. His wonderful work with the New Century program, the Neighbors in Need, Rotary and many other causes will not be forgotten. I'll never forget how he encouraged me as a single parent.

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Bob McRae posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

One of my favorite people during our years as superintendents. The consummate storyteller, but folks who knew Charlie well knew his thoughts went far beyond stories, especially when children were involved. His voice was always one which garnered attention among the other superintendents. I count it a privilege to have called him both colleague and friend. God bless you all.

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Steve White posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Hundreds of Catamounts will miss Charlie and his philosophy. He ranks in my all-time top 10 of ex-WCU basketball players because of his personality, loyalty, caring and love for the people of his community and its education. I am doing tribute to Charlie duing halfime of Saturday's WCU-App State game.

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Doris Monteith posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

I loved Dr. McConnell so much. He was such a good friend to Denver and me. I will miss his big bear hugs. My sincere sympathy to all of the family.

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Gary Phillips posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Ruth and family, Judy and Gene - I am so sorry for your loss. Charlie was absolutely one-of-a-kind.

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Mary Anne Roos posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Sending thoughts of friendship and sympathy to you, Ruth, Judy, and Gene. Charlie was an amazingly caring man and such an asset to our church, our community, and our educational system. One time when we were discussing a school situation, he shook his head and said, "I don't understand why... I hope to have a few friends left when I go." As you know, he certainly had more than a few ! May God bless you and your families and give you comfort through your memories and each other.

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Scott Penland posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Charlie was a wonderful, wonderful friend and colleague. We both became Superintendent in 1981 and had many wonderful years together. Many great trips to Raleigh. Every time I go through Clemmons, NC, I make the remark, "I need to stop at the Dockside Restaurant and have the seafood special for Charlie!" He did dearly love that place. He was a great mentor to me and I always enjoyed listening to him in a meeting. To me, he was like E.F. Hutton, when he spoke, "everybody listened". My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Charlie will be missed.

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Bill and Mary Lou Pressley posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Ruth Gene Judy and family We send our condolences and prayers your way.Many memories of Charlie,especially our guys trip to St. Louis to see Stan Musial and the Cardinals.God bless you all.

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John Brintnall posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

My condolences to Ruth, Gene and Judy. Charlie was a good friend and a great teammate for 4 years with a great sense of humor. He always kept things on the bright side.

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Sue Norman posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Charles McConnell has been a friend of my family for years. He contributed so much to our schools and community. He will be missed. Love and Prayers to Ruth and family.

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Micki and Ruddy Kaye posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Thank you, Jesus for your faithful servant, Charlie who gave us all so much JOY and LOVE..Rest in Peace our friend..we will never forget you. Lord be with the entire McConnell family and comfort them with your loving arms.

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Mary Henson posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Doc was one of the kindest, sweetest people I have ever met. My family and I feel so very blessed that Doc was a part of our lives. Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers and we all feel your pain. He made us all better people.

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Steve Moore posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

There will never be another Charlie McConnell.

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Connie Allen posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

I am a teacher of the Haywood County Schools where I did my student teaching from 1986-1987. I had the distinct pleasure of being interviewed by Mr. McConnell for a job during the summer after I had completed by student teaching. I only remember one question that I was ever asked during an interview and that was the one that Mr. McConnell asked me. That question was, "IF I were a bird perched in your room for a day what would I see from you regarding discipline?" Well, he is with the greatest and highest of birds now and I hope is seeing the things that he always hoped for and needed. You will be in my thoughts and prayers during this time. Sincerely, Connie Allen

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Shiela Fletcher posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Greg and his family, We are all thinking and praying for you and your family here in Charlotte. May God wrap his arms around all of you in this time of need.

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Randall Dills posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Charlie was a big man with an even bigger heart. WNC has lost one of its best. I am honored to have had him as my friend. You will be missed. My condolances to Ruth and the family. God needed you home to bring humor to Heaven.

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Karen Clark Pounds posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Ruth, Gregg, Jeff and Kristy: Our hearts go out to you all. Please know that the Clarks are mourning iwth you the loss of a wonderful man. A light has gone out in this world for he shone so brightly! If there is anything we can do or that you need from us, please don't hesitate to ask. Gob Bless You.

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Karen Clark Pounds posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

McConnells Our hearts go out to you all as we loved Charlie so much as we love you all. Please know that we have you in our prayers. If there is anything you need from us or anything we can do for any of you, please don't hesitate to ask. We love you all! God Bless You!

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Libby Nations posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

I Love You, Ruth. May God be with you.

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Larry and Kandy Tucker posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Ruth, Gene, Judy and the rest of the McConnell family. I was saddened this morning when a friend called and told me of Charlieâ€™s death. He was always a special person to me as he was a friend and an excellent boss. I felt that he always respected me and I certainly respected and admired him. He always tried to keep me pointed in the right direction. Charlie was a dedicated educator and administrator and always had the best interest of the school system at heart and he always worked tirelessly to make us better in all that we did. He was a good man and he will be missed. I feel that I am a better person for knowing him and will always remember him and hope as I grow older that I can be as fine a person as he was. God bless the McConnell family as they go through this difficult time and may they receive comfort in knowing that Charlie was a positive influence on this community. Larry and Kandy Tucker

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Larry and Kandy Tucker posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Ruth, Gene, Judy and the rest of the McConnell family. I was saddened this morning when a friend called and told me of Charlieâ€™s death. He was always a special person to me as he was a friend and an excellent boss. I felt that he always respected me and I certainly respected and admired him. He always tried to keep me pointed in the right direction. Charlie was a dedicated educator and administrator and always had the best interest of the school system at heart and he always worked tirelessly to make us better in all that we did. He was a good man and he will be missed. I feel that I am a better person for knowing him and will always remember him and hope as I grow older that I can be as fine a person as he was. God bless the McConnell family as they go through this difficult time and may they receive comfort in knowing that Charlie was a positive influence on this community. Larry and Kandy Tucker

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Larry and Kandy Tucker posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Ruth, Gene, Judy and the rest of the McConnell family. I was saddened this morning when a friend called and told me of Charlieâ€™s death. He was always a special person to me as he was a friend and an excellent boss. I felt that he always respected me and I certainly respected and admired him. He always tried to keep me pointed in the right direction. Charlie was a dedicated educator and administrator and always had the best interest of the school system at heart and he always worked tirelessly to make us better in all that we did. He was a good man and he will be missed. I feel that I am a better person for knowing him and will always remember him and hope as I grow older that I can be as fine a person as he was. God bless the McConnell family as they go through this difficult time and may they receive comfort in knowing that Charlie was a positive influence on this community. Larry and Kandy Tucker

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Elizabeth Stanton posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

Jackson County has lost one of its dearest sons. My prayers and deepest sympathy are with Ruth and the McConnell family. They are strong and loving people and will need that strength and love to bolster them now. May the peace of God be with you.

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Juanita Dixon posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

My deepest sympathy to all of Charlie's family.

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Margie Stephans posted a condolence

Friday, February 1, 2013

So sorry for you a loss. Charles was a wonderful man. He helped us on help keeping our house warm thru mtn projects. He will be sadly missed by all. Every time I would see him he would always shake my hand and ask me how are we doing. Margie & Joe Stephans

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Tom, Beverly & LIndsey Turrentine & George Hooper posted a condolence

Thursday, January 31, 2013

Ruth, our heartfelt prayers go out to you and your family. We pray God gives you strength and peace during this very difficult time. Know that God covers you with his love and care and He will help you thru this time of deep saddness.Charlie was loved, admired and respected by all. He touched many lives and had so much care & committment for the education of children. He will be missed.Our love and frendship we send to you, Tom, Beverly & Lindsey Turrentine & George Hooper

In loving memory of

Charles

1943 - 2013

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